Sunday, June 15, 2014

HAVE YOU EVER...listened to your parents?

let the wise listen and add to their learning, and let the discerning get guidance-  Proverbs 1:5

An acquaintance of mine on Facebook is a painter (The Magic Brush).  She recently posted pictures from her own house.  She had prayed over her children a special word and then painted it over the entrance of their door.  For example, one of her children had the word faithful painted above their door.  She said that we need to tell our children who they are and who God wants them to be OR sees them to be.  Throughout their lives there are going to be people who tell your kids who they are or what they are and they won’t have your children’s best interest at heart. 

Today when I was sitting and listening to our pastor’s sermon, I remembered a story about my father.  It is father’s day.  Dad has been gone 6 years now.  He has always and still is my spiritual cheerleader.  He understood that my love language was words before Gary Chapman did.  (I have told you this story before but there is a little more to it.)

One evening, we were having dinner with another family and my parents were bragging on my sister.  I might have been thirteen.  My sister is brilliant.  We spent many of our family vacations following her all of the United States to some sort of academic competition.  I never cared.  I got to go on vacation.  The next day, my father came to me and apologized to me for gloating about my sister.  He told me that I had done many things that made him proud.  He also said, that I might not always be the smartest kid in the family, but I was wise.  God had a plan for my wisdom. 

It is 25 years later, I remember this story from time to time.  God placed it in my heart for a reason.  I do not believe that I am a very wise person, but I strive to be, because that is what my father told me.  Our pastor was preaching on wisdom today.  Pastor Blake said that the key to living well is wisdom.  The key to wisdom is to trust God and fear God.  We need to have the ability to apply knowledge and in doing so respect and revere our Lord’s plans for our lives. 

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and discipline.  Proverbs 1:7

Wisdom is a big word.  It is used 41 times in the book of Proverbs.  I have been praying words over my children for a while now waiting to tell them my chosen word for this time in their lives.  I am praying the words “gentleness” over Alex and “dependable” over Jax.  My children already could be described with these words.  I want them to remember that I knew that God was using these traits in their lives. 

I also want to praise my Heavenly Father for giving me an earthly father and husband who seek His wisdom and share(d) it with me. 

HAVE YOU EVER…sought wisdom?



Proverbs 4:5-7; Proverbs 9:10; James 1:5